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way to meet people a decade or so ago, I was safely married — but weirdly, I felt like I was missing out on something.It seemed like fun, if a bit overwhelming, to shop for dates the way I might hunt for boots at That led to an hourlong reverie about my dream guy, and I couldn't go on. And when I checked out men’s profiles, I felt like the worst kind of cyber-voyeur: looking and judging while refusing to put myself out there.I had asked Mande what she likes about online dating, and she said that it had led to some real connections with good men and that it was worth wading through the clichéd profiles if she found one who stuck.Mike told her that she was the first person he contacted because she met his two requirements: at least 5 feet 10 inches tall and living within five miles of his ZIP code. He is funny, successful, artistic, an overall nice guy, and we have fun together. I’m just trying not to make the same mistakes I made in the past.” Jill and Mike’s story offers hope for Type AAs and slackerdudes alike.Fifteen minutes into their first date, he asked her out again. Looking for a little more motivation to give it a shot, I called the public relations people at How About We.com, which partnered with AARP in December to run a dating service for that organization's members.
The first thing I noticed was that the men in the home page promo look to be about 30.” is an actual suggestion from a 50-plus member, which makes me a little depressed. ) Mande, who has been on that site for two months, said she got only two responses to her posts suggesting such dates as a jazz concert at LACMA and lunch by the pool at the Loew’s on Ocean Avenue — both from younger men. Her profile is witty and charming, with stunning photos.If I were a guy, I’d hang out at the pool with her.(MORE: 6 Steps to Create a More Photogenic Online 'Stamp') Online Dating Just for Us Most people know at least one couple who met online and are, at least ostensibly, living happily ever after.Jill, 48, a friend of a friend, has been with her boyfriend, Mike, 58, since they met on two and a half years ago.